Online tributes provide essential place to remember loved ones during 2020

With fewer people able to attend funerals in person in 2020, more donations than ever were made online in memory of loved ones, according to figures from a regional co-operative.

A total of £450,766 was donated in 2020 via the free online tribute pages offered by Southern Co-op, which helps support grieving families in Berkshire, Dorset, Hampshire, the Isle of Wight, Surrey, Sussex, Somerset and Wiltshire.

Despite only a slight rise in the actual number of funerals arranged, this was an increase of over 35% in online funeral donations when compared to the previous year.

The independent co-operative, which operates branches of The Co-operative Funeralcare and Caring Lady Funeral Directors, believes the increase is down to more awareness of charities needing extra support as well as fewer people being able to attend funerals in person.

Steve Pearce, Chief Operating Officer for funeral services at Southern Co-op, said: “Just under 300 charities received donations through our online memorial tributes. The majority of these will have been hit hard by the pandemic so the support is likely to be invaluable.

“Sadly, a lot of the families we supported last year were also affected by the pandemic. It‘s difficult to describe the effect it has had on so many but our funeral co-ordinators have done everything they can to lighten people’s burdens and our bereavement care colleagues have been on hand to offer free counselling which has been vital.

“The fact that people are continuing to think of others, despite their own grief, is remarkable and shows the strength we have as communities working together in times of need.”

There were a total of 11,211 individual donations made in 2020 – an increase from 7,455 in 2019.

People made an average of £40 per donation via the online memorial feature which also allows friends and family to set up a personal tribute page, to light virtual candles, share memories, stories, photos and videos of loved ones.

The top three charities to which people donated the most were Cancer Research UK, Rowans Hospice in Hampshire, and Alzheimer’s Society.

Other local charities in the top ten were Phyllis Tuckwell hospice care in Surrey and Hampshire, which received £23,774 of donations; St Wilfrid’s Hospice in Chichester which received £12,909 of donations; and Mountbatten, end of life support on the Isle of Wight, which received donations of £7,812.

Jonathan Davies, Chief Executive of MuchLoved, the bereavement charity that provides the online tribute platform, said: “2020 was an incredibly difficult year for everyone, not least those bereaved and the funeral industry working tirelessly to care for them.

“We are delighted that Southern Co-op branches were able to use the MuchLoved platform to help those families, and that so much has been raised for such worthy causes.

“Since the start of our partnership together, over £1 million has been raised for charitable causes, which is an incredible milestone to have achieved. We look forward to working together to continue this success in the future.

“Our charity was founded to support bereaved people and help them cope with their grief, and working with Southern Co-op means we can offer this support and care to more people at the most difficult of times.”

For more information about online tributes, visit www.funeralcare.co.uk/tributes-and-donations.

 

Could you spare an egg for Easter?

An annual egg appeal is underway in West Sussex in a bid to gather as many eggs in one basket for children with life limiting and life shortening illnesses.

Now in its sixth year, colleagues at Caring Lady Funeral Directors are collecting eggs and crafts to deliver to Chestnut Tree House Hospice.

Donations can be made at all six of the Caring Lady branches in Brighton, Goring by Sea, Hove, Peacehaven, Shoreham by Sea and Worthing.

This year, there will also be eggs-tra collections taking place at The Co-operative Funeralcare in Findon and Uckfield giving people more places to make donations.

The appeal ends on 18 April and the eggs will be delivered later the same day just in the nick of time for Easter.

Clare Taylor, Funeral Co-ordinator at Shoreham’s Caring Lady Funeral Directors, said: “The local hospice does incredible things for children who are facing huge challenges which no one should ever have to experience.

“Thanks to the help of the local community, over the years, people have donated some amazing gifts for Easter which are really appreciated by the children, the hospice and their families. The community is so generous.

“We would ask people to donate anything suitable for the children that spend time at Chestnut Tree House.”

Chestnut Tree House is the children’s hospice for East and West Sussex, Brighton and Hove and South East Hampshire and cares for 300 children and young adults from 0-19 years of age with progressive life-shortening conditions.

To find our more, contact 01273 464647 or visit your nearest collection branch.

Rally proves a success despite bad weather

More than £3,500 was raised by a Shaftesbury’s Funeral Co-ordinator and her partner through their annual Vintage Vehicle Rally & Family Fun Day.

Cars line up at the Vintage Vehicle Rally & Family Fun Day

Held in the grounds of The Udder Farm Shop on 28 July, the event was held in aid of the Salisbury Hospice charity and Salisbury Hospital Stars Appeal Campaign.

Organisers Tony Fowler and Suzanne Smith – who works at Southern Co-op’s Shaftesbury Funeral home – have run the rally now for eight years in memory of Suzanne’s Dad Barry Smith.

Visitors were treated to the sights and smells of vintage and modern tractors as well as a road run, stationary engines and a range of classic and vintage cars and bikes.

There were also stalls, live music, fairground rides, face painting, a bouncy castle, tastings, a raffle and a barbecue.

Vintage tractors at the Vintage Vehicle Rally & Family Fun Day

Suzanne said: “The day itself started out brilliantly and we had a huge amount of visitors and the biggest ever turn out of exhibits and stall holders.

“Sadly we had to close the show for the safety of the public due to bad weather so to have raised so much for the charities in such a short amount of time was brilliant as they are such special causes to us.

“We have a strong group of friends that have always been available to help out and we can’t thank them enough. But as the show has grown over the past eight years, this year we were in need of extra help so we owe a huge thanks to staff from Southern Co-op who also all came along to help with car parking, marshalling, and donation collecting as well as anything else that needed doing on the day.”

To find out more about Southern Co-op’s Funeralcare in Shaftesbury and its commitment to the local community, visit www.funeralcare.co.uk.