Memories to be placed on trees of remembrance this Christmas

Residents are being asked to decorate a Christmas tree with memories this year with the iconic firs being placed in more than 60 locations across the south of England.

Southern Co-op is sending special greetings cards to families they have looked after who have lost a loved one this year. The cards include a pop-out star to let their memories shine bright this Christmas.

They are then being invited to place their stars on the memory trees being put up in Southern Co-op branches of The Co-operative Funeralcare throughout December.

These are based in Alton, Andover, Ash Vale, Aylesbury, Basingstoke, Bishops Waltham, Bognor Regis, Bracknell, Brighton, Camberley, Chichester, Cosham, East Cowes, Emsworth, Fareham, Farnborough, Felpham, Fleet, Freshwater, Frome, Gillingham, Gosport, Havant, Hayling Island, Hazlemere, High Wycombe, Hove, Liss, Newport, Peacehaven, Portsmouth, Ryde, Sandown, Shaftesbury, Shanklin, Shoreham by Sea, Sturminster Newton, Uckfield, Warminster, Waterlooville, Wendover, Whitchurch, and Worthing.

Trees will also be located at The Oaks Crematorium in Havant and East Devon Crematorium in Whimple.

The trees are open to everyone in order to give them the opportunity to write a personal message to someone who is no longer with them this Christmas.

Lesley Hadley, Bereavement Coordinator from Southern Co-op’s free Bereavement Care service, said: “This is a meaningful way to acknowledge the absence of our loved ones, and make a start on creating new rituals and traditions that will include them.

“If you are finding this time of year hard, remember to be kind to yourself. It’s okay to spend time in quiet contemplation if you would prefer that to being ‘jollied along’ by well-meaning friends and family.

“Give yourself the opportunity to do what makes you feel most comfortable, rather than what others think you should be doing.”

Information on free bereavement support is available on www.bereavementcare.uk.

Loved ones remembered with a star this Christmas

Special greetings cards with a pop-out star are being sent out to families who have lost a loved one this year to let their memories shine bright this Christmas.

Residents are being invited to hang their stars on memory trees being put up in Southern Co-op branches of The Co-operative Funeralcare throughout December.

There will also be a special event held in branches on 11 December between 1pm and 3pm for people to gather together and share stories and mince pies.

The trees will give everyone the opportunity to write a personal message to someone who is no longer with them this Christmas.

Ingrid McAllister-Derry, from Southern Co-op’s free Bereavement Centre, said: “After someone close to you has died, any celebration can be particularly hard.

“The memory stars give people the opportunity to re-live happy moments and make sure their loved ones are still included in this special time of year.

“For those who are finding it particularly hard, we have advice on our website and our free bereavement support is available to everyone.”

The cards are being sent out to all families who have been supported by a Southern Co-op branch of The Co-operative Funeralcare and they are also available free in-store for others to place a star on their trees.

Please contact local branches for further details which can be found here.

Information on free bereavement support is available on www.bereavementsupportgroups.co.uk.

Christmas Trees and Memorial Stars 2018

Residents are being invited to let their loved ones shine bright this Christmas by dedicating a memory star to them.

Christmas trees are being spruced up in preparation for families and friends to place memory stars on their branches throughout December.

The trees will be placed in Southern Co-op funeral home branches across the south of England to give everyone the opportunity to write a personal message to someone who is no longer with them this Christmas.

Ingrid McAllister-Derry, from Southern Co-op’s free Bereavement Centre, said: “After someone close to you has died, any celebration can be particularly hard.

“The memory stars give people the opportunity to re-live happy moments and make sure their loved ones are still included in this special time of year.

“For those who are finding it particularly hard, we have advice on our website, such as starting a new tradition, and our free bereavement support is available to everyone.”

Residents are also invited to attend special events in December when they can pop in and have a mince pie.

The events will be held on either Wednesday 19th or Friday 21st December from 12-3pm – see your local branch for details.

All memorial trees will be up and ready for stars by Friday 30th November and will remain within the reception area of each funeral home until the end of the Christmas season so that friends and family can visit to read the messages and add their own if desired.

For more information about Southern Co-op’s bereavement support, click here.

Walk against dementia

A memory walk is being held along Portsmouth seafront to pay tribute to a colleague who lost his wife to Alzheimers.

Being organised by Southern Co-op’s funeral homes in Waterlooville and the surrounding area, the seven mile memory walk will be a relaxed stroll on Friday 26 October.

Colleagues taking part in the walk will be raising money for Alzheimer’s Society after Funeral Assistant Rob Morey, based at Southern Co-op’s Leigh Park funeral home, lost his wife Gina in February.

Ali Davison, Funeral Co-ordinator at Southern Co-op’s Waterlooville Funeralcare, said: “This is the first time we have organised a walk like this and the main reason was because we wanted to do something positive to show our support to Rob and his family.

“We also wanted to show our respect to all of the families we look after that have been affected by the illness.

“It won’t be a strenuous walk – we will start at the Clarence Pier and the aim is to walk to Eastney and back. There may also be a short stop if we are too worn out!”

People do not need to be an experienced trekker and can walk as far as they want.

The walk follows a route which is completely flat. Dogs, children, friends and family are all welcome.

The route is well-lit but walkers may want to bring a torch and are advised to dress appropriately.

Walkers will be meeting at Clarence Pier at 6pm, with the view of heading off at 6.15pm.

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