Memories to be placed on trees of remembrance this Christmas

Residents are being asked to decorate a Christmas tree with memories this year with the iconic firs being placed in more than 60 locations across the south of England.

Southern Co-op is sending special greetings cards to families they have looked after who have lost a loved one this year. The cards include a pop-out star to let their memories shine bright this Christmas.

They are then being invited to place their stars on the memory trees being put up in Southern Co-op branches of The Co-operative Funeralcare throughout December.

These are based in Alton, Andover, Ash Vale, Aylesbury, Basingstoke, Bishops Waltham, Bognor Regis, Bracknell, Brighton, Camberley, Chichester, Cosham, East Cowes, Emsworth, Fareham, Farnborough, Felpham, Fleet, Freshwater, Frome, Gillingham, Gosport, Havant, Hayling Island, Hazlemere, High Wycombe, Hove, Liss, Newport, Peacehaven, Portsmouth, Ryde, Sandown, Shaftesbury, Shanklin, Shoreham by Sea, Sturminster Newton, Uckfield, Warminster, Waterlooville, Wendover, Whitchurch, and Worthing.

Trees will also be located at The Oaks Crematorium in Havant and East Devon Crematorium in Whimple.

The trees are open to everyone in order to give them the opportunity to write a personal message to someone who is no longer with them this Christmas.

Lesley Hadley, Bereavement Coordinator from Southern Co-op’s free Bereavement Care service, said: “This is a meaningful way to acknowledge the absence of our loved ones, and make a start on creating new rituals and traditions that will include them.

“If you are finding this time of year hard, remember to be kind to yourself. It’s okay to spend time in quiet contemplation if you would prefer that to being ‘jollied along’ by well-meaning friends and family.

“Give yourself the opportunity to do what makes you feel most comfortable, rather than what others think you should be doing.”

Information on free bereavement support is available on www.bereavementcare.uk.

A window of thanks to mark WWI centenary

All 64 men from Whitchurch who died during the First World War are being remembered with a public display of thanks on a funeral home’s window.

Remembering all 64 men from Whitchurch who died during the First World War

Southern Co-op’s Whitchurch Funeralcare has created a window display with extra special meaning to the local residents.

Funeral Co-ordinator Denise Meaden has also added a personal touch with a wedding picture of her nan and grandad – who fought in the second world war.

Her grandad’s medals are also on display alongside an easel listing the names of the 64 men from Whitchurch who died during the first world war.

The display includes their age, the date they were killed and where they lived in Whitchurch.

Southern Co-op’s Whitchurch Funeral Co-ordinator Denise said: “My nan lost three of her uncles during the First World War who were all from Whitchurch so each of these men are included in the list of people being remembered – Frank aged 27, Richard aged 20 and Ralph aged 17.

A wedding picture of Funeral Co-ordinator Denise Meaden’s nan and grandad

“We hope that the window not only marks the centenary but also means something to the local community.

“We have already had a huge response from the general public. We have had several people come into the branch to say how meaningful it is.”

Residents are currently able to get hold of poppies in the branch until 11th November and all proceeds will go to Royal British Legion.

Whitchurch Funeralcare is located in Winchester Street and is part of is the regional independent co-operative society, Southern Co-op.

To find out more about the branch, visit www.funeralcare.co.uk.

Funeral home horses around for charity

Football teams in Whitchurch are one step closer to the light as a charity race night raised £1,145 for the cause.

Hosted by Southern Co-op’s funeral home in Whitchurch, more than 80 people turned up to the race night on 28 July.

The fundraiser was held in aid of Longmeadow Sports and Social Club to raise money for new training lights for the local football teams.

Jessie Chamberlain and Denise Meaden, Southern Co-op Funeral Co-ordinators in Whitchurch, said: “There was excellent support on the night with everyone enjoying the excitement of the races.

“We were really impressed with the turnout and it meant that the event had an excellent atmosphere. The races may not have been live but a lot of us felt like we were there at the side of the track.

“By the end we were on an amazing high. Raising so much money for our local club means a lot to us. We are proud to be part of our local community.”

On the night, punters paid to become the sponsor of a horse for each race before a real life race was played out on the big screen.

There was also a chance to get porky as the big finale was none other than a pig race.

Although the pigs were not running live, the bidding to become the owner of each pig was feverish with £150 being paid in total.

With each race, the owner or sponsor of the winning animal received the race’s prize.

There was also a raffle which raised extra funds for the special cause.

Click here to find out more about Southern Co-op’s commitment to the local community.